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Thursday, November 4, 2010

Loose Cap

i always tell these to my friends who asks me to help them when their lover failed them or they failed their lovers. yes, its hard to forget someone whom you have spent time with. especially, those precious times you really really adore and think about all the time. and even first love.

just a precautionary.. i will be straightforward with my point here. try to keep an open mind and understand what i mean.

from the day we are born, we don't own anything. until we die. we wont own anything. from what i see, why people are having a hard time letting go of the people they love, is that their mind is telling themselves that "this is mine". did you get what i mean? or other reasons.. its like when buying a very expensive stuff and someone stole it from you. its really hard to bear. i know.

others would say "its/hes/shes the only one". i don't know about you but your wasting time saying that. nothing is labeled as "the one". if you get what i mean. do you even wonder how your ancestors got married or not and still have kids? well, its that they've got their lover. yes, they lost lovers too. but in the end, everything still works great. if its not great, look at yourself again, and try to ask the same question. if you can.

i dont know if i really put everything that is what i have in mind here. im playing loud music at the same time chatting with other people when making this :) rofl

I Asked You. Now What?

does it not irritate you when someone asks you something and you answered them, then they would ask the same thing again.. sometimes in rephrased versions lol. other people would ask you questions when the answer itself is very obvious or just needs a little thinking.

START THINKING PEOPLE. you will need it. not everything will be serve on a silver platter. as they say it. its true. the world is not fair. and its a very dangerous place. problems will eat you alive. so start asking questions..


Wednesday, November 3, 2010

What's Done is Done

"if you want something to be done right, do it yourself"

bosses and employees are one example where one people asks another to do something. then in the long run, one will get mad that the thing that they've asked, the other people to do, was not right. but the above statement does not apply to that. you have to really do what your boss's tells you. and even if you're right, you're wrong. ☺.

in cases where there are no bosses and/or employees.. these things still happens. and i cant stand the fact that the one asking the favor is still the one getting all heated up. its just not right. its like you only asked for a helping hand. not a worker. people like these should have a mindset of appreciating those people who tries and helps them and thinking that they are not doing the job alone and you guys know the rest :)