do you believe in sayings? like the way our grandparents give us tips about our daily lives. and the way we dont listen to them and still do our own thing? i do believe in experience teaches us so we do sumtimes dont listen to them because we want to experience it ourselves and learn from it. common sayings like: "history repaeats itself. once it does, it only means you have not learned from it." and "when life throws you lemonades, make lemonades out of it." and my favorite "everything that is too much is bad." we all read/heard these things over and over but sometimes we dont get it. right? eitherway.. those stuffs are true. i mean, if you think about it... those things are probably made a long time ago and ask yourself, why is it still being said now? it only comes to one conclusion that all of them are true and it applies to the people who use them.
but then again, NOT ALL THINGS APPLIES TO ALL. you need to consider other forces and be open minded.you need to assess everything and always take at least one step forward when making a move.
i will get straight to the point. i believe that everything is balance from the start. ppl born is given an exact, let say points, as well as the other people who are born. these points are divided into categories: physical, mental, emotional, social, stuff, stuffs, other stuffs, others, etc. bad thing is, we cant choose where to put those points. so from the very start.. let say if you have a High points in your Social.. you are probably rich at famous. but there are parts of you that you lack or that is negative about you. my point here is, nobody is perfect. if a people is really talented like he/she can sing and dance, that guy is prolly bad at math or other things like let us say he is fat or ugly or his/her social life is not so good.
this also applies to other things like tangible and intangible stuffs.